Fertility Doctor Told Couple They Were Having Too Much Sex: Ines and Ross Share Intimacy Journey

Ines and Ross, a couple who once shared a high sex drive, were surprised when their fertility doctor advised them they were having too much sex while trying to conceive. The couple, whose desire hasn't diminished, found their intimacy evolving after the birth of their daughter. Ines now describes being content with a 'cuddly, loving shag' rather than frequent intense encounters, highlighting how parenthood can shift priorities without extinguishing passion. Their story, shared anonymously, underscores a common but rarely discussed challenge: balancing a robust sex life with the demands of family planning and childcare. It matters because many couples face unexpected medical advice or natural changes in libido, yet few hear honest accounts of navigating those shifts. The takeaway? Intimacy isn't about quantity—it's about adapting together, and sometimes a slower pace brings its own depth.